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Weight Control – The Facts Make It Easy – Part II

Thursday, December 3rd, 2009

Visibility allows flexibility – do it your way

To reiterate, nowhere in Part 1 did we tell you what to eat or do to lose weight.  All we have said is “know how many calories you burn, what you want to weigh and when, and then you’ll know how many calories you get to eat.” And by now you know that the more you move, the more you can eat.

When it comes to accomplishing a weight or body fat goal, all that matters is that you start. What you eat and how you burn calories is no one’s concern but yours. So, on average, just burn more than you eat until you reach your goal. It’s not a program – it’s your life combined with the right tool to tell you all you need to know. That tool is the exerspy.

Here’s what one new user who’s struggled with thyroid disease and weight gain has to say about exerspy:

“I’ve used countless food logs, work out logs, and am an avid health freak.  I didn’t really like online programs I used and the fact that I needed to use multiple programs (one for calorie/nutrition facts, spreadsheets, work out logs, etc.) made it an arduous task.

“I started using the exerspy on Tuesday of this week and it has been such a blessing!  I LOVE IT! You have done an extraordinary job on the equipment, online program, food log, tracking mechanisms, etc.  I couldn’t be happier.  I wear it all the time and am thrilled about the prospect of what it can do to help me reach my goal/target weight and fitness level.”

What’s her motivation? It’s simple — she’s able to easily fit the program to her lifestyle.

Side note: Every adult knows the difference between good and not so good food – and of course your calories should be made up of better foods – but hey, you figure that one out because at the end of the day, only the difference between your burn and your consumption determines your weight loss – NOTHING else.

The same formula applies to all of us, including those who eat well and exercise religiously but still have that pesky little spot of body fat that just won’t go away. The answer is the same. Repeat after me, “Eat fewer calories on average than you burn (do it your way) until it goes away”. And always bear in mind, you CAN’T chose to lose fat in from a specific place on your body, like your thighs or stomach.

The Undeniable Facts of Weight Control:

  • Individual total calorie intake is determined by personal activity, body statistics and goal including desired timeframe. The foods that make up your allowed calories can be structured to improve health & performance.
  • One single fact determines the rate of weight/fat loss: the average daily calorie deficit. This is defined as the difference between how many calories you burn and how many calories you consume. Weight loss should proceed at a pace that does not compromise health or performance.
  • Exercise is intended to improve your body structure, function/performance, longevity, visual appearance, etc. Exercise also increases daily calorie burn and helps you maintain your desired weight.

You must be the creator of your program or you won’t be the master

The only way you will own a behavioral change is if you create it. Start anyway you can, sticking to this simple rule: burn more calories than you consume, on average, until you reach your goal. Just follow the number.

The good news is that “one good turn deserves another”, meaning, as your body changes and you start to look better, you will also do things better. BUT the first turn has to come easily and on your terms, or you’ll take a second step to failure. Square pegs don’t fit in round holes – you need to own your program because it fits the life you choose, not a life someone else chooses for you. You want to be lean but you need to get there your way. Want maximum visibility and complete flexibility? Welcome to dotFIT Me.

Ready for more? Join us for any of our free webinars and you’ll not only learn valuable information about weight control but you’ll also get a sneak peak at dotFIT Me and exerspy.  Just go to www.dotFIT.com/webinars to register for the next session.

Weight Control – The Facts Make It Easy – Part I

Tuesday, December 1st, 2009

If you know what to do, then why CAN’T you control your weight?

The simple answer to the question is motivation, because everyone knows how to lower their weight – everyone. Yes, ALL adults know (albeit many are in denial) that their undesirable or oversized fat stores are a result of eating or drinking more than they need. Therefore, everyone knows the one and only answer is to eat less, move more or a combination of the two – hello!

I travel and lecture all over the world and I have yet to meet an adult who truly doesn’t know that they’re overweight because they eat or drink too much. Nor have I met a person who wants to become overweight. So why is the majority of the adult population overweight? The first part of the answer is that people can’t see or feel daily weight changes. The average adult gains 1-3LBS per year, or in daily numbers, ~1/365 -1/182LBS per day (or an average of 10 to 30 calories per day more than you burn). This leads to the second part. Body fat creeps up so slowly it’s easy to ignore it until you’re forced to put energy into losing weight – and the perceived effort, which is any weight loss program or method, requires motivation. Motivation to change your lifestyle means motivation to change your behavior, and it requires lots of thinking, planning, actions and sometimes counseling.  And the method you choose may not fit your lifestyle, which means you ultimately achieve weight regain. Yet, as previously mentioned, you DO know why you are overweight.

How do we lower the need for motivation?

Let’s go back to where we started. You are overweight because you ate more than you moved, meaning more than necessary. You also know that now you need to eat less and/or move more to fix it. Okay, nowhere in this conversation did anyone tell you what to eat or how to move, right? So what’s the simple answer to reversing the problem WITHOUT life-changing or threatening motivation?

You CAN eat ANYTHING you want – you just CAN’T eat EVERYTHING you want

Meaning, do what you do but just a little less and/or a little more. Reverse the behaviors that got you here. That’s right, no lifestyle change is required, just a minor adjustment. The rest will take care of itself. As soon as you make a big deal out of losing weight, you take your first step toward failure.

To succeed you only have to pay attention to a number, but you need to know what that number is.

You WON’T manage what you CAN’T see and you CAN’T manage what you DON’T know

To successfully achieve your goal weight YOUR way, you need to know how many calories you use every day so you know how many you can eat to lose weight or not get fat. Now you have something to manage that’s controllable daily: simple numbers.  And remember, numbers don’t lie.

Motivation will come from seeing body fat coming or going in real time at any time — hourly, daily, weekly, etc.  When you can SEE your daily body fat gains and losses, it’s simple to manage them because it doesn’t take much effort to eat one less bite or take 10 extra steps to stay on track. The “icing on the cake” is that you will actually be motivated by having visibility into real time changes in your body fat. When you use a flexible program like dotFIT Me, you can view hourly and daily changes in weight and body fat as opposed to waiting until they are confirmed by the scale or change in clothing size. Flexibility is critical to your success.  We’ll explain why and how in Part 2.

Weight Control Must Become Second Nature

Wednesday, November 25th, 2009

If you think you can control your waistline without trying, I want you to take a look around and keep these two things in mind: 1) nobody gets fat on purpose and 2) everybody gets fat at some point in their life. Yes, even if you aren’t now, you have a greater than 90% chance that you will be overweight at some point in life– and that’s a fact.

So, can you control your waistline without trying?  No, not in today’s world.

“Only at the brink of disaster do we evolve” – and let’s hope that’s not necessary

As overweight and obesity continue to climb in the face of well known dire consequences, the message society is sending to researchers is very clear: due to 21st Century demands, the majority of people will not make lifestyle changes. In fact, the small population of successful weight losers had to reach a point of being near death or in search of a new mate, and I would argue that’s not a position in life you want to reach. Therefore we have to figure out how to make life itself keep us fit. How do we live in harmony with the “landmines” of everyday life, such as stationary jobs and entertainment, our need to quickly acquire tasty food (fast food), and exercise not being intuitive or fun, or just too time consuming?

In a nutshell, weight control for adults living in the modern world doesn’t happen by accident, but weight gain does. Adults don’t curb their eating automatically to get or stay in shape because humans simply are not designed to ignore good food or to move around unnecessarily.

Daily changes in body fat are easily overlooked
These daily changes are so tiny they’re not measurable, which means we can ignore it when weight goes up and then we’re frustrated as we attempt to lose it. We let weight gain continue even though we eventually see and feel it happening. We certainly don’t continue to let weight increase on purpose (most people don’t think it’s attractive or healthy). Our belated signals include moving up a notch on the belt, an increase in clothing size, seeing ourselves in the mirror, and stepping on the scale and finding that the number is significantly higher than it was when we looked and felt better.  Whether it’s visual or numerical, we are being semi-regularly warned. And THAT’S the whole problem. Controlling our waistline is not innate (in fact it’s innate to grow our waistlines) and warnings are too slow thus excusable. So we ride the train to being overweight another day – out of sight, out of mind – and the next day, and the next day . . . and the next stop?  Fat City.

We have the same problem when we try to reverse weight gain. Weight/fat loss or reaching our desired look happens too slowly for our liking, especially because the process is usually painful and unsustainable. Most, or all, of a dieter’s lost weight is gained back and as a society we continue to get fatter. This proves that current weight loss methods or treatments are virtually useless against our 21st century environment.

If you can see it, you can lose it –and do it your way

All of this proves that you need to be able to, at any time, see your gains and losses no matter how small. Because at the end of the day, we can’t or won’t manage what we don’t see! But give us instant visibility to our daily body fat fluctuations and we can fix it on the fly – without pain! Pain happens when you can’t see anything and have to fix it later.

Enter the exerspy:  allowing life itself to be your training partner

It’s the first and only program that “talks to you,” informing you when to stop eating or start moving so you can look the way you want. Every minute, every day, whenever you want, the exerspy will keep you on track to your goal by giving you the ability to see fat loss and gains before they happen. This way you always know when to take one less bite or move another few steps. When weight loss is the goal, there is nothing more motivating than to SEE it every hour, everyday or any time you want. Seeing it in real time also allows action any time – YOUR WAY.

Simply put, when you know how many calories you burn, you know how many calories you can eat. The more you move, the more you can eat. Our life becomes our fitness program: eating what we want, moving or exercising the way we like. The exerspy is your training partner because with exerspy, life is exercise and YOUR food is your diet.  Ready to get yours? Check with the dotFIT club near you or order online at www.dotFIT.com/exerspy.

Cool features in dotFIT Me, the online weight control program from dotFIT

Wednesday, November 18th, 2009

I spend a lot of time showing fitness professionals how to use all of the features on the dotFIT Me program; there are a lot of them. When we designed this program, we really did try to be everything to everyone. Now I know they say (whoever the heck they are) that that cannot be done, but I must admit, we did a pretty good job, if I do say so myself (and I apparently do….gotta love a blog). In doing so, there are so many cool things this program does that I thought I would share a few of the more convenient features, starting with the nutrition section.

Nutrition Tab: Clicking the Nutrition tab along the top brings you to the nutrition options. These include:

  • Overview: when you first hit the nutrition page, scrolling down will show you the calories and percentage of protein, carbohydrate and fat for that day. Clicking a different day on the calendar will let you see the overview for that day (as a trainer, I use this feature to get a quick snapshot of what my clients are doing…or not doing).
  • Preferences: clicking this link on the upper left will give you access to numerous special features, such as:
    • Meal types: click this to select the actual meals you will be eating and logging. There are seven possible meals, select or de-select as appropriate.
    • My saved meals: view the meals you have saved. For example, many people eat the same breakfast everyday during the work week. Saving a meal is done from the food logging screen by clicking on the plate and silverware above that meal.
    • My Menus: your saved menus from the reference menu selection.
    • My Food: you can add foods to YOUR database that cannot be found in the CalorieKing database. Also, this is where you can add/delete the foods you have previously added.
    • Detailed View: this allows you to track specific nutrients and aspects of your diet, such as fiber, calcium and sodium. Clicking the blue “detailed view” button in the upper right side of the logging screen will allow you to see the detail you selected for each food item, meal and day.
    • Reference Menus: also on the upper left side. Clicking this will give you access to eight unique eating styles with calories appropriate to your goal.
      • Click the menu that interests you. If you want to use it, click customize menu in the upper right. You can then edit the menu, adding new food items, changing serving sizes or deleting foods. When finished, click “Save My Menu“. It will now be found in your saved menus section and via the link to my meals from the food logging screen.

Next time, we will look at some of the helpful features of the supplements tab.

Wanna shed some pounds? Get rid of the “dieting mentality”

Friday, November 6th, 2009

iStock_000006918985SmallWhen you read or hear the word “diet,” what comes to mind? How about pain, suffering, deprivation and misery? Does failure come to mind? Maybe “weight rebound?” So why in the world would anyone want to go on a diet? Simple – to get the results of going on a diet. The problem is diets are typically a temporary thing – you do it for a while until you can’t do it anymore and what happens?

You know the answer . . .
Most of us can’t – and won’t – suffer and deprive ourselves for the rest of our lives to get and stay at our ideal weight. But, if you can find a way to enjoy food while maintaining a healthy weight, I’ll bet you can lose the weight for a lifetime.
Here’s what it boils down to – a numbers game. No different than your checkbook – you need to know how much is coming in and how much is going out. Your body needs a certain number of calories to stay balanced. That is, to maintain your current weight. If you’re depositing more than you’re spending, what happens to your balance? It increases, just like your waistline. If you spend more than you deposit, what happens? Your balance goes into the negative and now you have to use your savings. The body does the same thing – if you spend (burn) more than what’s coming in, it will tap into your savings (fat reserves) and your waistline shrinks.
So doesn’t it make sense to know your balance? Do you know how many calories you need every day? Do you know how much is being deposited? Most people don’t yet they wonder why they “can’t” lose weight. As our founder, Neal Spruce, wisely put it – you can’t manage what you don’t know and you won’t manage what you don’t see. We’ve made it easy for you connect with your numbers with the Me program.  The food logging system and eight different lifestyle menus show you how to incorporate the foods you enjoy so you can manage your daily calorie budget.

Join us for a free webinar on November 11 and we’ll not only give you the facts of weight loss, we’ll show you exactly how our program works. It’s time to stop dieting and enjoy the freedom of dotFIT Me.

Link to www.dotFIT.com/webinars

People Don’t Need Better Health Care, They Need Better Health!

Monday, November 2nd, 2009

Lately not a day goes that you don’t hear a heated discussion about the state of health care in America. Health care costs have been rising for years. Expenditures in the United States on health care surpassed $2.2 trillion in 2007, more than three times the $714 billion spent in 1990, and over eight times the $253 billion spent in 1980. So what’s driving health care costs?

  • Chronic disease- It is estimated that health care costs for chronic disease treatment account for over 75% of national health expenditures.
  • Prescription drugs and technology- Spending on prescription drugs and new medical technologies has been cited as the primary contributor to the increase in overall health spending.
  • Aging of the population- Health expenses rise with age; however, experts agree that aging of the population contributes minimally to the high growth rate of health care spending.
  • Administrative costs- Estimated to be 7% of health care expenditures (marketing, billing) and much lower in the Medicare program (<2%).

Everyone wants to cut health care costs. This was done once, by reducing patient service and care (have you ever actually SEEN your doctor for more than 10 minutes?), now the simple answer may be to cut down on the biggest offender- chronic disease. This biggest cost drives the others (except aging, so there’s one in the plus column).

Cancer, diabetes, heart attack and stroke account for the majority of chronic illnesses that cost Americans billions of dollars and countless lives each year. Four lifestyle factors that are well within most individuals’ control may reduce diabetes by 93%, heart attack by 81%, stroke by 50% and cancer by 36%, according to a new study conducted the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) in Atlanta, Georgia. These factors are:

  • Never smoking
  • Having a Body Mass Index (BMI) below 30 (thin, normal or slightly overweight but not obese)
  • Exercising at least three and a half hours a week
  • Following a healthy diet, which the researchers defined as high fruit and vegetable consumption combined with limited meat intake

The old saying- “an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure” -looks to be pretty spot on. Something needs to be done and the good news is that the solution lies within the control of most people. If, as a nation, we want to reduce health care costs, the greatest single impact is to take action and control of our own health. I see too many people going out of their way, day-to-day, to harm themselves physically. I know this is not what goes through their mind, but it is the reality. People take better care of their cars than their bodies. What person in their right mind would neglect their car (never change the oil, rotate the tires, perform basic maintenance) and then have the AUDACITY when it breaks down to exclaim, “This is ridiculous! The government needs to fix this car. I cannot afford to do it on my own…it is my right as an American to have car coverage!” What do most people do to keep themselves roadworthy?

Consider this: “The fundamental nature of medical risk in the United States has changed over the past 20 to 30 years—shifting away from random, infrequent, and catastrophic events driven by accidents, genetic predisposition or contagious disease and toward behavior- and lifestyle-induced chronic conditions. Treating them, and the serious medical events they commonly induce, now costs more than treating the more random, catastrophic events that health insurance was originally designed to cover. What’s more, the number of people afflicted by chronic conditions continues to grow at an alarming rate.” (This quote from the McKinsey Quarterly business journal.)

What to do? It is really pretty simple.

  • Don’t smoke. If you do, stop.
  • If you are overweight, lose weight. Anything is better than nothing. Losing 10% of your bodyweight if you are significantly overweight will dramatically improve your health and reduce or eliminate many lifestyle health issues, reduce or eliminate your need for prescription drugs (sorry big Pharma) and add years to your life and likely life to your years.
  • Become more physically active (doesn’t have to be the gym, just MOVE!).
  • Eat better, and eat less.

If you need guidance, we can help (www.dotFIT.com). Take care of your body and yourself . . . it is your responsibility. If all Americans who could do so would, health care costs would plummet. Let insurance cover the things that you cannot foresee or prevent; don’t use it as a means to heal self-inflicted wounds. Now, what do Americans do with all that extra money?

Eat, move, lose. Period.

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

One common weight loss myth that drives us crazy here at dotFIT is the starvation mode myth.  It goes something like this: Eating a diet that is too low in calories will cause the body to go into starvation mode and not burn any calories.

People love this myth.  You know why? Because people, including me, love to eat. But here’s the fact of the matter: Severely cutting calories will cause your metabolism to adjust slightly, allowing your body to run on fewer calories, but it doesn’t prevent fat loss if you’re truly burning more calories than you’re consuming.

You’ll sometimes hear the trainers on the T.V. show The Biggest Loser alluding to this when they tell their contestants how important it is that they not eat fewer than 1200 calories a day. That’s a pretty low calorie diet, and the contestants are working out at least 5-6 hours every day. If they eat less than that they won’t “go into starvation mode,” but they won’t have the energy they need.  The same holds true for the average person trying to lose weight.

If you cut your calories too much, you become less energetic. As a result, you’re less active. That is, you do fewer daily activities, and then you burn fewer calories overall. Crash dieting with excessively low calorie intake leads to low energy levels, so you burn fewer calories all day and work out less intensely. This leads to increased hunger, which in turn increases the chances of rebound and binge eating behavior. In other words, you’re likely to move a lot less and eat more. The result? You hit a plateau which easily misinterpreted as the result of a “damaged” metabolism.

The point is not to lose weight too quickly by drastically reducing calories because that method is generally not sustainable. Mainly because it takes extreme and unrealistic changes in your diet to get results and when you drift back to your old eating habits, the weight returns.  The Biggest Loser is a reality show, but it’s not reality.  The contestants are closely monitored by a staff of medics, physicians and trainers. And if you could follow up with past contestants, you would find that most of them haven’t been able to maintain the weight loss they achieved on the show.

If you need to lose weight, eat less, move more and forget about starvation mode or slowing metabolism. Remember that a calorie out cancels a calorie in, no exceptions. Research shows that most people think they’re eating less than they actually are, so keep tabs on your calorie intake by using a food journal.

And if you really want to see how many calories you burn every day, along with your steps, minutes and type of physical activity, and how efficiently you sleep at night, check out exerspy at www.dotFIT.com/exerspy.  The research and development team at dotFIT that created exerspy and dotFIT Me is the same team that created the bodybugg® system featured on The Biggest Loser. By using exerspy and the dotFIT online program, you can see the calories you’re eating and burning, which takes the guesswork out of weight control. It’s not your metabolism that’s preventing you from losing weight – it’s NOT knowing your numbers. Take control, see your numbers and get results.

Night eating falsely blamed for weight gain

Wednesday, September 23rd, 2009

A recently publicized study by Northwestern University claims that their research sheds new light on obesity. In this study, mice fed a high fat diet during normal sleeping time led to a greater increase in weight gain than the same diet given during normal waking hours. This, they assert, proves that obesity is more than simply calories in vs. calories out. The researchers were looking to apply this outcome to shift workers who work irregular hours and experience weight gain.

Animal studies play a role in human research, but we need to be careful in a mouse-to-human transference. The subject of meal timing and weight gain has been looked at quite a bit in human research with mixed results. Basically, I can find studies that show it matters and I can find those that show no difference. It kind of goes that way with research.

The difficult thing about human research and outcomes is the human. We are forgetful, prideful, inaccurate and at times untruthful. This makes it hard to come to definite conclusions in human research, unless you can sequester the participants for a period of time and provide the only food they will eat. Even then, you develop research that falls into the “so what” category, because no one will do actually do in real life what they did in the study.

Let’s get back to the late shift factory worker. If they have been gaining weight, then what is the solution? Don’t eat? Get a different job? Not likely. The ultimate solution for this person will be to either increase their activity, eat less, or a combination of both. So, increase calories out, decrease calories in or a combination of the two. Sounds like a calories in vs. calories out relationship to me.

Why do I care enough to write a blog about this? Because every time something like this comes out, it gives people an excuse for weight gain and declining health. It isn’t my fault, I work the late shift; it’s my genetics; my parents were overweight; I eat too many carbs; I have a slow metabolism. There is, to date, no instance of weight gain that cannot be traced to an excess amount of calories consumed IN RELATION to calories expended. Where this gets lost is that even subtle changes in activity or food intake patterns can affect energy levels and appetite. I make this distinction here because at the moment these influences are just that — a feeling: a desire to eat sweets, to snack, a craving or a lack of energy and enthusiasm to move or workout or even a spurt of energy to move more.

What follows determines the impact of the feeling. That is why we stress the need for cognitive awareness: being aware of what you are eating and doing and what impact that has on your energy balance. If you can track that you are eating more calories than you want or need, then you can take action. You can simply reduce portions, not eat certain foods or make substitutions that take a smaller chunk out of your daily calorie allotment. Measuring your activity level can motivate one to purposely be more active, using the calories burned as a score for the day. Periodic weighing can get your attention when weight begins to creep up, not when it has blindsided you with a huge increase.

Ultimately, you are in control of your weight, within reason of course. It is you that eats the food and makes the food choices. Ultimately it is you who makes the decision to move more or less. Allowing for genetics and other factors beyond your control confuses the issue and takes control from you. To date I have never seen a single person whofailed to lose weight when they consistently altered their calories in vs. their calories out to do so. The choices are yours and completely in your control.

Motivate someone by sharing your success story

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

At some point everyone has come across a story that moves them to take action. Whether it’s NPR’s “This I Believe” series or reality TV shows like The Biggest Loser, we relate to and are motivated by the experience of others.

This is especially true when it comes to weight loss and fitness.

At dotFIT, we live and breathe fitness and weight loss.  If you could be a fly on the wall in our office, you would hear it all day long – we talk about new studies that support or refute our position, how to get our program in front of beginners who need help losing weight but are intimidated by the gym environment, how to explain the necessity of a multivitamin during weight loss . . . it goes on and on.  Of course we want our products and program to be the best. But what spurs us on are the stories of regular people who’ve struggled with weight their whole lives, and suddenly they “get it.”  A light goes on and weight control makes sense. That’s when we know we’re doing something right.

We want to hear your story.  And we want to share it with others on dotFIT.com when we roll out our updated site design in a few weeks. What drives you to be fit? What’s your goal? How is dotFIT helping you along the way?  Just send an email to marketing@dotFIT.com if you’d like to share.

Desire, Motivation and Follow Through

Wednesday, August 26th, 2009

Have you ever imagined what it would be like to win the lottery? When you hear of some lucky person winning $100 million, does your mind begin formulating a list of all of the things you would buy? The places you would go? The things you would do? Mine does. I have told my wife many times that if I ever show up to the house out of the blue in a brand new Aston Martin, that I have obviously won the lottery. Here’s the kicker though; I never purchase lottery tickets. So, what is the likelihood that I will win it? Slim to none and slim just left in my Aston Martin.  What does any of this have to do with fitness? Well, I have talked with hundreds of people over the years who have very specific fitness goals. They talk about how they would love to lose 10, 20, 50 pounds. They would love to have a smaller midsection or a butt and thighs that were not so flabby. Often, I hear these comments while they are in the process of doing things that are taking them farther from their goal, not getting them closer. While ordering dessert after pizza “I wish I could wear my bikini at the pool party, but I’m too out of shape”. It happens often and it makes me scream….on the inside.

Changing your current circumstance takes three simple things: desire, motivation and follow through. Most everyone gets the first part. They have the desire to change. They have a crystal clear idea of what they would like to look like. There may even be motivation. They join a gym, start a diet or make a verbal commitment by telling everyone they know that they are going to lose weight. But, like my failure to buy a lottery ticket, no true action is taken. There is a lack of follow through. Thinking about fitness will not make it come true. It takes action. Showing up to your workouts, scheduling time for yourself and not cheating yourself out of that time is follow through. Not giving into every temptation (and they are everywhere, always) and eating what is better for you, not just what tastes great, that is follow through.

A wise man once said, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” Take that first step. At least you will be moving toward something rather than standing still. Make a commitment for 30 days to do what you know is right and under no circumstance waver from your commitment. Heck in my case, I’m 42 years old…it is only a .2% commitment of my life. Why do I ask for 30 days? Because it will give you an opportunity to establish new habits and patterns. My experience shows me that habits tend to be self-perpetuating. Do the right thing (or at least do better) for 30 days and it will feel weird if you deviate from it. It becomes easier to stay the course.

So, enough of thinking of making a change, MAKE a change.